What is The Serving Step?
Age 10 is a great time to help your child discover their unique gifts and then explore how they might use them for ministry or missions, which is why we’ve created the serving step on the Faith Path. As the primary faith trainer of your child, you can set a goal this year as a family to bless others together through the spiritual discipline of service.
Put It Into Practice
Begin by explaining that God has blessed and entrusted each of us with resources, gifts, time, and talents. With these, we have the opportunity to worship and honor Him through the spiritual discipline of service. Having been first loved and served by Jesus (1 John 4:19; Mark 10:45), we can joyfully and generously steward these blessings to serve others and bring Him glory (Matthew 5:16).
Additionally, as parents, we have the privilege of helping our child discover their unique gifts, and then explore how they might use them for ministry or missions with the added blessing of finding ways to experience serving together. Your child will appreciate learning how God has wired them, and then seeing how they can bless others through serving.
Next Steps
Here are some simple suggestions for serving as a family:
- Do the GPS Exercise: Spend time talking with your child about their gifts (G), their passions (P), and the specific needs in your community (S). Talk through where those three things intersect and how your child can serve at that intersection.
- Search for a Good Fit: Help your child find serving options based on the GPS exercise. It can be as simple as baking cookies for a homebound neighbor, or it can be an extended serving time such as a mission trip or meeting a particular need on a regular basis. You can also look at Watermark’s list of external service opportunities to see how you and your family can serve others.
- Set Expectations: Put your child more at ease by explaining what to expect. For example, if you plan to visit a nursing home, he or she may encounter odd sights, sounds, and smells.
- Build Your Relationships: Take note of what your child does well while serving. Intentionally encourage him or her by saying you are proud of how they demonstrated a great attitude or area of strength.
- Be Safe: Keep a close eye on one another, especially children/teens if serving in unfamiliar settings.
- Talk About It: Ask questions when you finish serving together such as…
- What were you most encouraged by while serving today?
- What kind of difference did you/we make?
- What is one way that you saw the Lord at work?
- How did it impact those you served?
- How did it impact you/your family?
- What is one thing you will walk away with from today?
- What were you most encouraged by while serving today?
- Pray: Take a few minutes to pray, asking God to bless those you served.
Additional Resources
- Impact Dallas: Watermark’s group serve days
- 77 Ways Your Family Can Make a Difference by Penny A. Zeller
- Focus on the Family resource: “Take This Spiritual Gifts Test With Your Family”
- The Mission-Minded Family: Releasing Your Family to God’s Destiny by Ann Dunagan
- Becoming a Servant Bible Study by Not Consumed Ministry
- For families wanting to put on their own neighborhood event, see our Backyard Bible Club leader’s guide under the “Love Your Neighbor” section of Watermark’s Outreach page
- Sign up for Straightforward Service, Watermark’s newsletter that spreads the word about upcoming service opportunities.
©Inkling Innovations 2019, updated Watermark Community Church 2023.